Aspie-Reform

We have the right to: - Own websites and forums - Govern them as we wish - Speak/post freely on public forums - Choose how we act/react - Listen or view what we wish - Walk away from what we do not wish to see or hear - Take offense - Be uncomfortable or angry - Attempt to offend others - Criticize others We do NOT have the right to: - Force others to not speak/post - Choose how others act/react - Force others to listen to us - Censor others - Force owners of websites to keep our posts up - Use any websites or forums we do not own - Not be warned or banned - Be given mod permissions - Be right - Be popular - Have friends - Be apologized to

Some people don't understand the value of boundaries. Aspies often don't even know the reason for them, since they have fewer mirror-neurons that tell them why people feel certain ways about things like proximity, snooping, and prying questions. Because of this, aspies will find themselves out of step with neurotypicals. Other times, they think that these boundaries are set up just to hurt them or destroy their fun. They don't realize that boundaries are for their benefit as well. Boundaries can be anything, from certain body parts being 'private' to things like cheating in a relationship, stealing, hitting, spreading rumours, snooping, ins

Now, most people who have been on the internet for awhile know that a SIMP is a guy who would bend over backwards to give the world to a woman who doesn't give a shit about him. Like, he goes on maybe two dates with a chick, she hasn't even kissed him, and he wants to buy her a diamond bracelet. Or he will get mad at a guy his chick is sleeping with, instead of at her. On the internet at least, the term SIMP could mean anyone pursuing friendship - not just romance - with someone of either gender. The main similarity between the romantic and non-romantic SIMP is lack of reciprocity. Aspies have a big problem, which is, they keep giving and gi

We aspies are usually very easily irritated, upset, or distressed. Weirdly enough, it is very hard to anger us - to TRULY anger us. Sometimes that can be a good thing, as we can be - or at least seem to be - very patient and tolerant. However, this patience can be a curse when it comes to other people burning bridges. People can take advantage of our kind, patient nature, or we can creep out other people if we seem overly friendly and forgiving. Because of this, we need to learn to be angry. To start, think about a friend who suddenly burnt a bridge. Think about what you did about it. Did you apologize profusely for whatever you did? Did you